
against David Norris, which in turn led to me
being called a homophobe by a guest on the
‘Vincent Browne Tonight’ programme.
Recognising the use of the word ‘homo-
phobe’ as a long-standing instrument of
censorship I immediately consulted my
solicitor, Kevin Brophy, who made con-
tact with both organisations. The Vincent
Browne programme agreed to broadcast an
apology; the Irish Times essentially refused
to apologise and more or less told me to
sue if I wanted to. I decided not to, on the
grounds that I was continuing to work for
the newspaper, and TV had issued a rea-
sonable and timely apology. In neither case
had I raised any issue of damages, nor, in the
case of TV, did I seek even my legal costs.
(In the recent controversy, “RTÉ could have
saved its licence-payers €, plus legal
costs, had it responded as TV did on that
occasion.)
The following weekend, the Irish Mail on
Sunday carried an interview with Christine
Buckley (recently deceased), the former
institutional abuse survivor and cam-
paigner. She said “Senator Norris does not
appear to see the moral dilemma in abus-
ing a child, the psychological impact, the
emotional impact, the shattered life”. As a
supporter of David Norris in his battles on
behalf of homosexuals, she said, she felt a
sense of betrayal.
Although I had been called a homophobe
for similar interventions, Christine Buckley
was not accused of homophobia – the inter-
view was simply ignored by all other Irish
media outlets. Until then, it would have
seemed unthinkable that any contributions
of hers on the subject of paedophilia would
be ignored – but this one was.
‘Homophobia’, of course, is a multi-faceted
word. It has been widely used by gay rights
activists as an instrument of attack and
demonisation. The word also has strong con-
notations of an imputed aversion towards,
indeed hatred of, homosexuals based on a
fear of same-sex attraction which the per-
son exhibiting the prejudice may detect, and
seek to suppress, within himself.
But it was Brendan O’Connor, not Rory
O’Neill, who introduced the word “homo-
phobia” – and went on to invite O’Neill to
name names on the ‘Saturday Night Show’.
It was when O’Connor asked “Who are
they?” that O’Neill replied: “Well the obvi-
ous ones… Breda O’Brien today, oh my God
banging on about gay priests and all, like the
John Waterses and all those people, the Iona
Institute crowd. I mean I just, I just, feck off
and get the hell out of my life” (applause from
the audience).
The defamation entered in with the
“It will never be known what acts of cow-
ardice have been committed for fear of not
looking sufficiently progressive”
Charles Péguy
T
HOSE with whom I’ve been bundled
over the course of the past three
months would have good reason to
accuse me of draft-dodging on the gay mar-
riage issue. I had been avoiding becoming
embroiled in that issue, not least because
my views on the subject are rather compli-
cated. Contrary to what Rory O’Neill implied
on the ‘Saturday Night Show’ of January
, I had not been regularly appearing on
television panels with the view of destroy-
ing his happiness.
Having named me as one of the people
attacking his happiness – ‘The obvious ones’
– O’Neill went on: “I mean, what astounds
me is that there are people out there in the
world who devote quite a large amount of
their time and energy to try and stop peo-
ple, you know, achieving happiness and
that is what people like the Iona Institute
are at”. Apart altogether from the ‘homo-
phobe’ slur, this was objectively untrue, at
least in as far as it related to myself, and I
state this merely as an irrefutable fact. Only
three or four days earlier, I had declined an
invitation from ‘Vincent Browne Tonight’,
to talk about a recent statement by former
president Mary McAleese about gays and the
Catholic Church. In fact, although I had been
a regular guest on Browne’s show on RTÉ
Radio One up until about a decade ago, I had
only once appeared on his TV programme.
One of my reasons for declining to appear
was Browne’s consistently aggressive dis-
missiveness of any or all of my arguments
concerning fathers and children.
Smears about me and homophobia began
three years ago, during the early stages of
the presidential election, when the
retired journalist Helen Lucy Burke went
public with her concerns about an interview
she had conducted with presidential can-
didate David Norris a decade before. Burke
immediately found herself targeted by gay-
rights activists and journalists seeking to
prevent her airing these concerns which
related to Norris’s alleged views on paedo-
philia. On seeing this, I wrote about the issue
in my Irish Times column, recalling the facts
of my own involvement, as consultant edi-
tor of Magill in , in working with Helen
Lucy Burke to try to persuade David Norris
to withdraw his comments about paedo-
philia from the interview before publication.
My writing on this subject led to a scurril-
ous article in the Irish Times, in which I was
accused of being part of a smear campaign
acquiescence of O’Neill in O’Connor’s prof-
fering of the word “homophobic” and this
was in only the slightest degree mitigated
by the fact that O’Connor’s motive appeared
to be to defend me against the accusation he
detected O’Neill to be making. “I don’t know.
I don’t know”, O’Connor interjected. “I know
one of the people that you mentioned there
wh ich i s John Water s. I wouldn’t have t houg ht
that John Waters is homophobic[?]”.
If Rory O’Neill had offered any remotely
germane evidence of his opinion – that, for
example, I had spoken or written anything
that he, however implausibly, was deem-
ing “homophobic” (for example, if he had
dragged up the now notorious ‘satire’ quote
in which I suggested that the preoccupation
with gay marriage indicates a wonky prior-
itising of concerns relating to family while
father-child rights continue to be ignored),
RTÉ might have had at least a presentable
defence of honest opinion. He didn’t – he
cited nothing I had said or written at all –
and so RTÉ was left utterly defenceless.
I remember one occasion I was myself on
the ‘Saturday Night Show’ when Brendan
O’Connor seemed to be rushing headlong
through the pretty lengthy agenda. He also
appeared to be somewhat preoccupied dur-
ing the interview, looking away as though
distracted by something and leaving me
talking to his ear. Afterwards I asked him
what had happened, and he said: “I had a
voice in my ear telling me to move on!”.
The question is: where was the voice
in Brendan’s ear during the Rory O’Neill
interview?
I made contact by text with Brendan
O’Connor before the end of the programme
telling him that I believed the interview had
been defamatory. Later that night, both
O’Connor and his producer Larry Masterson
texted me to tell me I could come on the show
the follow ing week to respond to what O’Neil l
had said. Since this would have amounted to
me going on to protest against an accusation
that had been made without substantiation
or evidence, I would have been reduced to
responding by, for example, listing my gay
friends, or telling about the numbers of gay
people whom I’d helped in relation to chil-
dren or whatever – in effect analogous to
issuing assurances that I’d stopped beating
my wife. On the Sunday, my lawyer wrote to
RTÉ asking that urgent attention be given
to removing the defamatory content from
the repeat of the programme going out that
evening, and that the programme be taken
down from the RTÉ player. The repeat went
out unedited.
I took a telephone call from Larry
Masterson a few days later, in the course of
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